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Tali Toni Kearney Sep. You exchange s in hopes of planning a date. You shoot him a text, letting him know you had a fun night. And then, you wait.
Two days later, you're debating whether to write off that apparently perfect person you met on Saturday night, or to pitifully send another text because, maybe, the message didn't send. Or maybe, something was wrong with his phone. Well, you just forget it. We spend our rent money on tjen tickets, and we are always searching for something more. We are by no means "put together. But hokkup aside, we have rules. The fact is that no matter how in denial you are, these so-called rules exist.
Have you ever stopped yourself from sending a text message because your friend told you it came off as desperate? Have you ever resisted the urge to sleep with someone because it was only your second date? So following the so-called rules, including listening to my friends when they tell me not to text someone, has not been my forte. But, here it goes. Every group of somethings will tell you something different, but from my research, these are the most common rules of dating and sex: 1.
Why People Follow the Rule: We are afraid of judgement from our friends, ttalk and peers. Some people believe dating someone even a year or two younger while in university, for example, can be a huge gap in maturity. Others believe dating someone who is a decade theb more older is simply "too old. Legs, sometimes it may be strange for a year-old to be tangled up with a year-old, or a year-old to be dating a year-old.
But, I feel this firet only an issue when you are in your early 20s. As long as you are comfortable with yourself, and you are not breaking any laws, there should be no wrongdoing. The Three-Day Rule You must wait approximately three days after a first date before you contact someone again. Often, cirst feel uneasy if the level of desire isn't equal in a relationship.
Being needy is also seen as a huge turn-off in today's society. We like our ificant others to be independent and strong, and apparently not waiting three days demonstrates weakness. BS Factor: 9 Who honestly gives a damn if someone texts you right after a date or three days later? If you had a good time meeting someone, you should let the person know whenever you feel it. There should be no need to wait three days. You could literally drive non-stop across Canada in three days.
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You could watch four seasons of lwts Anatomy" in three days. Do you know how much happens in four seasons!? Most first dates go badly because of nervousness and takl. First dates should not be a first impression. Why People Follow the Rule: Our generation has officially ruined relationships, and casual sex is becoming very casual in our society. Cut the bullshit, and have a mature conversation if being exclusive is what you want.
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That means using a condom and getting tested regularly, if you weren't already aware. Or maybe, you want the person to think you struck out at the bar, and that the 3 am phone call is totally okay. Or perhaps, you want the person to know he or she only looks good in the dark. Sarcasm and bitterness aside, I believe people follow this rule thne they are too nervous to call someone up for some afternoon delight.
It's hard to be galk that level with someone you're just sleeping with. People may also unknowingly abide by this rule if they only feel the desire to sleep with someone after they've been drinking or partying, which is a sad, but true, reality. BS Factor: 10 If you want to call someone up, send the person a text or whatever, do it whenever you feel like it. And if you actually never feel like sleeping with someone when you're sober, you should at least have the decency to take the person's feelings into consideration.
Unless, of course, you're both on the same. Get over yourself, and say hello if you really want to. BS Factor: 5 Let me set the record straight on this one. If I put the time and energy into getting ready and hanging out with you, I'm going to text you the next day and tell you I had a good time. I'm going to send a flirty text to ensure that you felt somewhat the same.
And I will not apologize for doing so, and neither should you. Firdt you want to text someone to tell him or her that last night was fun, you should feel no guilt or remorse in doing so. This person saw you naked for God's sake! The No-Double-Double Rule If you ever send a text message, and the other party does not respond, do not send another message until the person does.
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Why People Follow the Rule: Breaking this rule apparently makes you look needy and eager. Supposedly, texting twice in a row indicates you're a little too into someone, and that is not good see Rule 2. Sometimes, I forget something. Sometimes, someone takes way too long to respond, so I'll message you again. I don't have patience. I'm not needy.
I just get excited. It's okay to be excited about something, isn't it?
If you just sent a text to someone, and an hour goes by with no response, you should not assume this person was mauled by bears or got hit by a car. Simply assume that the person was not near his firsr her phone, and send another text if you desire to do so. The Sex-on-the-Third-Date Rule You must not sleep with someone until at least the third date or the third encounter. Why People Follow the Rule: People wait a while to sleep with others for a of reasons.
BS Factor: 2 It doesn't make you crazy if you want to wait to pets sex with someone.
It makes you crazy if you have a strict rule against sleeping with someone for a certain of days. We all can agree that sex is always better when it's spontaneous. Therefore, you shouldn't have to feel so uncomfortable when you feel that three dates seems too long. The Two-Drink Rule You must not consume any more ohokup two drinks on a date. You must only get buzzed, not drunk.
Why People Follow the Rule: You don't want to get drunk. You don't want to look like you're super nervous and are pounding back the liquor. You want to be classy. And if you don't know the person that well, you want to tali safe. BS Factor: 3 Having a drink or two often acts a social lubricant. In the world of business, drinking at networking events and other social gatherings is completely natural.
Having a drink or hoomup on a date is fine.
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Know your limits, and set personal boundaries. For some, that may be two drinks, and for others, it could be a pitcher of beer. Whatever your limits are, ensure you trust your date and yourself. The Eat-Like-a-Lady Rule On a date, you must order something that will be easy to eat, something that doesn't cause a mess. But, it cannot be a salad. Why People Follow the Rule: You don't want to gross out the other person.
Ralk probably not on that level of comfort with your date yet. Sal are a cop-out, and ordering a salad will let your date automatically know that you're twlk this rule. That's reserved for deeper relationships. Eat whatever you want to eat. And hey, if you like salad, go ahead and order one! The Timed-Text-Back Rule The time tlak takes for you to respond to a text message must be equivalent or approximate to the time you waited for that text message.
Why People Follow the Rule: Letw waited for you, and now you wait for me.
Again, you can see the common thread here of desperation and neediness. BS Factor: 8 If you're the kind of person who is glued to your cell phone, don't be ashamed to answer someone back right away. You answer your friends and family back promptly, so why thej everyone else?
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Of course, you can make someone wait for you if you were annoyed waiting for his response. But paying close attention to how long it took someone to answer you, then waiting that time to lsts is a little whacky. Texting someone back right away could either mean you were on your cell phone, or you were waiting for the person to text you back.
Each and every one of these rules are completely made up, and they are complete crap. The only rules you should have in your life are your personal values and beliefs.